To My Future Girlfriend

Anonymous asked: There's nothing funny about this! You want un-anonymous? FINE! There's a lot of flirting coming your way. Gear up ;)

bring it

Anonymous asked: Dear tim, I tried to grab your attention. It didn't work.

well hopefully you weren’t anonymous when you tried, because i usually pass those off and don’t take those seriously haha.

Anonymous asked: What your regular blogs url?

hotassbeatclap.tumblr.com

Anonymous asked: You're talking to a loser here as well..! But I just know if a guy in my class who I thought was cute came up and talked to me, then talked to me again, then added me on facebook and eventually facebook chatted me and we started talking... I'd probably be into you as well!

so all I have to do is go up to a girl in one of my classes and talk to her? and then i guess if she has a boyfriend or i get friend zoned do it with another girl? i mean im just starting new classes tomorrow, it might be weird. and how would i know if the girl is even into me for me to approach her without embarrassing myself?

Anonymous asked: Parties? Classes? Coffee Shops? I know its hard but finding the confidence to compliment a stranger and getting to know someone new will help with this search!

Classes maybe idk. I don’t really get invited to parties and idk any coffee shops around here besides like starbucks. I’m kind of a loser lol.

Anonymous asked: May try and talk to girls that are opposite to your typical girl (that are your) friends. Change it up a little ? :)

I’m not really sure how to like, start things lol. Like I can’t just go up to a girl and talk to her randomly, so how do I meet girls?

Anonymous asked: Are you nice to girls? Outgoing? Funny? Theses are things girls like!

I try to be yes. I’m actually one of those guys who usually gets put in what they call “the friend zone”, I feel like that’s because I try to be nice but yeah. I’m pretty funny but it’s kind of the same thing as before. I would say I’m pretty outgoing too. Idk girls just don’t notice me, I want to change that..

is there anyone who would like to give me tips on how to get a girlfriend? lol

Anonymous asked: Tell me. If I like this guy I barely met how would I get to know him better? Um, Or would you like it if a girl was the assertive type?

I would just start a conversation with him and if you like what he’s about, then be a little more assertive and drop obvious hints but don’t give yourself away.

damn now im giving dating advice lol

extralemon asked: I love your blog. Saw it once and fell in love. Don't shut this down or you die

meh :P

Anonymous asked: Dear Tim, Today I'm reading your entire blog for what may be the last time (since you're considering deleting it). I'd like to thank you for your honest opinion and for letting us people know that there's at least one sweet person out there that only wants love. Before this blog I thought guys were all jerks. I was wrong. Thank you for convincing me otherwise. I say all of this sincerely from my heart. Now, I have hope.

well thank you.

today i realized i’ll never find anyone

this girl was supposed to come over tonight to watch a movie, and it was a girl i liked a lot

and i got stood up

im probably just going to delete this blog, because all it does is give me false hope. i know this is kind of like a crappy post to put on a blog everyone likes but im just being honest by now. i’ve never had a girlfriend, and it looks like ill never have one.

all i want is someone to like me. i mean really like me. be the person they are always thinking about, someone who’d be better in their life instead of just another person who wouldn’t matter. i just wish i was important to someone, someone who didn’t want anyone else but me, who thought i was insanely attractive and hated every other girl i came in contact with because they wanted me all to themselves. i want that more than anything else in the world. but ive never been that and ill probably never be that.

amillionshadesofblue asked: I just found your blog. Your note about Where the Wild Things Are gave me chills. And I think you have the biggest heart. I hope you find the right girl soon - you deserve to be happy.

thank you :)

Anonymous asked: Please don't shut this down :"( I like reading your blog over and over. It makes me feel better. Please?

idk i mean maybe. i havent even really thought of anything new to post on here lately, i feel like it’s pointless, plus im busy too lol